I will not tell you the city in question, it is the largest city in Canada.
It is not the capital, although it has a capital feel to it.
It is one of the most multi-cultural cities in the world.
This however only means that these different cultures hang in their own groups, they do not intermingle and create a happy kumbaya atmosphere.
The city has been a bastion of feminism for some time now.
I would like to say this is the reason why the city is so hard to game in, but it goes deeper than that. I am not sure what the root problem is.
It could be the lack of girls which I deem suitable for sexual relations.
Some say there is more men than women in the city, I am not sure if this is true. There are more thirsty men in the city, which is a recipe for disaster.
Women that are considered cute here, would be ugly in many places I have visited.
As a man, you have a biological need to spread your seed. Living in a repressive society which frowns upon masculinity works against your biology.
It is so bad, that old women up to age 60 can find younger partners even if only for a short period of time.
Some older women refuse to date men their age. Online dating sites cockblock men from dating girls much younger than them. I believe the powers that be put these blocks in place, to try and force men into marrying women of an older age. Some men fall for this ploy. I have many friends who actively date women over age 40.
I have others try to set me up with these same women, with children.
Even girls that are overweight, have a more active social life than your average healthy male (see below)
Living in a tough city like this, has helped me improve my game. One has no choice. I am very selective, this attitude permeates in the air. I am very confident, women cannot help but inquire as to why. I work to improve on things within my control, my body, wardrobe, social skills etc.
I know money is important, but sadly there are rich men in the city who get no love.
I have hobbies that make me more interesting, after all women want to be around interesting men who know what they like and where they are going.
I refuse to do online dating, that puts me at a dis-advantage. Online dating has completely ruined the market, the below average girl can find dick easier by using it.
Conversely, the above average male cannot find an above average girl using the same tactic.
To fish in a tough ocean, you have to go where the fish are. Exclusive clubs, fancy shopping malls, Starbucks, fancy gyms (Lifetime, LA fitness), language classes etc.
Travelling is a must, to keep me sane. Travelling helps you calibrate your brain, some places I have been I have received the red carpet treatment. This makes me realize that the problem isn’t me.
Women love men that travel.
I sometimes wonder if a baggage handler that travels a lot could out game a Doctor.
I know girls with no value that have managed to get dates with Doctors and Lawyers.
I like to showcase my “assets” or lifestyle on Instagram. I know many girls in my circle are actively watching my page, I have had girls make off handed remarks on something I have posted on Instagram.
I don’t invest time in women anymore. I invest time in myself, creating the lifestyle I want.
Women see this and respond accordingly. Many men make the mistake of trying to impress women, I show women I am not impressed by them. Gaming in the hardest city in the world, has made me a better man.
My inner game has improved and shows on the outside.
I know I won’t remain here forever, a man can only handle so much abuse (RudeBwoy).