Sorry about the delay, folks but I’ve been sorting some things out on my end! I’m still in the game and still trying to refine my hunting spear, javelin and dagger!
You can have a harem but it can’t be obvious. The lizards have too much leverage for it to work in the favour of the man. They can vandalise property, feign outrage and they have such things known as a crime of passion for which authorities have a soft spot towards. To counter this, you have to be vague, cover your back and be unpredictable in your movements.